Family Life

Is Your Trampoline Safe Enough?

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Big backyard? Extra money? Bored or inactive kids? That’s the perfect recipe for buying a new trampoline! While there’s no doubt trampolines are fun for children and adults, did you know that the American Academy of Pediatrics does not recommend the use of home trampolines?

There were approximately 300,000 medically treated trampoline injuries in 2018, and that number is on the rise due to the trampoline's heightened popularity in recent years. If you are considering buying one, or if you've already made the purchase, read this injury and safety information before your family's next "backyard" evening.

Is it okay to have a baby shower for a second (or third) pregnancy?

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Ah, etiquette. We all want to tiptoe within its bounds and avoid ticking off our closest friends and family when major life events roll around - like your new baby.

And yet, so often in modern life, it seems like the old ways don't always cover the new realities. Things really were simpler back when the rules were drawn up!

So, how to navigate the do's and don'ts when you're preggers again ... and again? After all, it's probably safe to assume that this baby rocks your world just as much as your first did.

So is a second (or third) shower okay, or will you be viewed as an opportunistic gift grabber? Is there any sneaky way around the horns of this dilemma - or must you throw in the baby towel, pass on the shower, and just order out for pizza instead, skip the anchovies? Read on for the answers!

ScreenTime = Learning Time with these 40 Free Educational Websites

It's the weekend or a school holiday, and you're desperately seeking an easy game plan for the kids to keep learning ("somewhat"). Check out this listing of free educational websites for kids that we found online at FromABCsToACTS.com. Having your child learn via one of these educational online resources for an hour a day will be fun for them and will buy you some time to give yourself a facial, paint your toenails (because, after all, spring is here!), and prep for tonight's dinner. Enjoy!

Winter weather is here! Make these snowflakes this week!

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Snow?? We're excited... and a bit nervous, to tell the truth. What will we do with the kids this week? There's no school on Monday and Tuesday because of this freak winter storm, and we're wondering if the situation will look any better later in the week. The best news is that we're getting snow, and with that comes a longing desire to make cute snowflake crafts. (Hey, it's a perfect way to keep little minds occupied.)

Here are a few links to fun snowflakes to make this week.

Celebrate the Year of the Ox!

It's the Year of the Ox! I just stocked up on Trader Joe's Mandarin Orange Chicken, and I'll be decorating the house with red and gold balloons this Friday! It's Chinese New Year (also called Lunar New Year or Spring Festival), one of my favorite holidays to celebrate! Here's how your family can celebrate, too:

13 of the Best Family Movies to Watch for Black History Month

When I was growing up, there were very few people on the big screen who looked like me – not that I necessarily noticed; but looking back, I can ascertain that it was a reality. I’m grateful that times have changed, and my daughters get to enjoy interesting movies with all sorts of remarkable characters including some who share their same ethnic background. I thought it would be meaningful to make an acknowledgement post during Black History Month, and, although the month is celebrated in various ways by different people, let’s have fun with it and discuss some good movies starring black actors! Here are 13 of our faves that you can (probably) watch with your entire family:

Editor's Picks - Family-Friendly Movies - Old & New!

There aren't a whole lot of things better than snuggling up on the couch with the kids for a movie day or night! When you've resolved to stay in for the day, head to RedBox, or pull up Netflix / Disney Plus / Amazon Prime on TV, or set-up a movie exchange with your friends and play some of our favorite family-friendly movies - old and new!

Family-Friendly Website Picks

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The web is teeming with information for kids – good and bad! We’ve put together some of our favorite kid-friendly, fun, educational and just because websites for toddlers to tweens for you and your kids to enjoy this summer!

Network Websites - PBSKids, Nick Jr., Sesame Street and Universal Kids are just a few! All the networks your kids love have great websites with videos and games featuring their favorite characters.

Starfall.com - This free, learn-to-read site is arranged in four different main sections to play, based on where your child is on the journey from reading readiness to independent reader. Fun animations, interactive stories, and catchy tunes.

Smithsonian Education Students - Smithsonian Education Students is a treasure trove of resources for kids and a place for them to explore and learn about many topics such as art, history, science, and cultures.

Brain Pop Jr. – Brain Pop Jr. (and Brain Pop for older kids) creates animated, educational movies and curricular content that engages students, supports educators, and bolsters achievement.

Switch Zoo - Switch Zoo started as a fun little game where you can make crazy animals by combining different body parts. Now, the website features additional animal games, music created from animal voices, a reference section about all the animals in Switch Zoo, lesson plans, and poetry, stories and artwork created by students and other visitors.

Fisher Price - Online learning activities and games, coloring pages, crafts, and more for your infant, toddler, or preschooler.

Pixie Hollow - Fairy-loving kids will find virtual-community features, two chat options, and a magical fairyland of games, videos, and activities.

The Cat in the Hat Knows a Lot About That - An award-winning website designed to spark a love of learning and an interest in science and math in preschoolers

Sports Illustrated Kids - SIKIDS.COM is the online counterpart to Sports Illustrated For Kids magazine. The site changes from day to day, and even from minute to minute, where they provide a fun, safe environment for kids, filled with some of the best news, games, and interactive features on the internet.

LEGO Duplo - Safe, full-screen games where your preschooler can play and learn with virtual LEGOs.

FunBrain – Edcuational games, online books, and comics, for ages preschool to 8 years old.

KidRex.org – A safe, kid-friendly search engine that emphasizes kid-related webpages from across the entire web and are powered by Google Custom Search™ and use Google SafeSearch™ technology.

National Geographic Kids - National Geographic Kids inspires young adventurers to explore the world! The website features different people, animals, and places with facts, games, activities, and related links.

KoookaBoooka – KoookaBoooka is a blog-style website of funny stories, funny pictures, and humor for kids to enjoy.

10 Toys and Manipulatives for BORED Kids

Kids are bored and doing nothing? Have these toys and activities on hand to perk things up!

Rainbow Loom - Rainbow Loom® is a kit for making super fun rubber band links, recommended for 8 yrs to adult, but younger kids will enjoy it too with a little help from an adult.

Washable Sidewalk Chalk - Sometimes getting kids outside is simple. Crayola's Washable Sidewalk Chalk will inspire hours of driveway doodling. Each stick is squared off so that it will not roll away into the street when placed down. Should you prefer not to wait for the rain to clear your children's chalk masterpiece, this chalk will wash away easily with the spray of a hose.

Tuptoel Electronic Target Shooting Game – A hit with parents and children alike, this toy gun set comes with two quality toy guns, electronic shooting targets, and digital screen scoring.

Dress-Up Costumes – Boys and girls of every age love to dress up and pretend they are a princess, superhero or police officer. Have a drawer stuffed old jewelry, hats, etc. or purchase they ready-made sets for easy access!

Sand and Water Table – This is a great idea for helping pass the time on a hot summer day! Choose from sand, water or both for all-around imaginative play. Combine the water tower and mountain cover to create a waterfall.

Jumbo Cardboard Blocks – Kids will spend hours building, destroying and building with these large, cardboard blocks. Make mazes for your pet hamster, race tracks for your cars or houses for Barbie – the ideas are endless!

Finger Paints – Stop by the craft store and load up on finger paints, finger paint paper, textured rollers and sponge stamps and then open the door and let the kids create in the yard!

Play Doh – Play Doh comes in every color and texture imaginable these days and there’s no end to what kids can make! Spice it up a bit and get them an ice cream or tool workshop and watch them go!

Kinetic Sand – Kinetic Sand, sometimes referred to by the trademark Moon Sand™, is a revolutionary material that feels just like sand and molds to any shape you can imagine. Squish it! Shape it! Mold it! Kinetic sand never dries out and can be used again and again.

Jump Rope – There are tons of things to do when you have a jump rope on hand if you’re going solo or with a group. Grab an 8-foot jump rope, a couple of friends and the “Anna Banana Jump Rope Rhymes” book and have a ball!

7 Ways to Enjoy Life's Everyday Moments

Are you finding it difficult to carve out quality time with family? Even during the pandemic - when life has forced so many of our lives to a significant slowdown - it still hasn't been easy for some of us parents to dedicate ourselves to family time activities. Maybe we're too bogged down with work, homeschooling, or household responsibilities; or maybe the current (and crazy) events in our word are taking up too much emotional space for us to focus on anything else.

Taking the time to experience bonding activities with your family and loved ones can result in fond memories and a deeper sense of security for all involved. Here are 7 easy ways to make this happen:

1- Build Strong Bonds

Life gets busy, and in the shuffle it’s easy to overlook the importance of quality time with your friends, family, and significant others. Commit to regularly (and safely) spending one-on-one time with each loved one as a special treat you can all cherish. Even if it’s just snuggling and watching a favorite show together, crafting, or doing an activity you both enjoy, try making an effort to slow down and strengthen your bonds.

Want to raise kids who are compassionate? Be sure you're doing this essential thing!

Do you think you're on the right track for raising kids who are kindhearted and compassionate, and then they say or do something so inexcusably mean or inconsiderate, and it makes you wonder, "Where the heck am I going wrong?"

There’s a saying that goes, “Preach the gospel. If necessary, use words.” Along these same lines, I’d like to say “Show your children how to be compassionate towards others. If necessary, use words.” This basically means that while verbal guidance might be necessary at times, we should primarily show / teach with our actions, because these actions are what will most influence others – especially our own kids. It's true, and I have the letter that proves it!

The other day, I ran across a stack of 7 folded notes written to/from my 15-year-old and 6-year-old daughters. Because I’m a nosy mom (I bet you are too!), I took a seat and read through them all, and it appears as though the first note that initiated the back & forth exchange was from the teenager. It was an apology to her baby sister, telling her she was sorry that she was too busy with schoolwork the previous day and couldn’t play with her. The note went on to ask “If you have a chance, we should have a meeting at 2pm today. If you think this is a good idea, please meet me in the kitchen at promptly 2:00.”